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SWIRL to Scale Back Operations To Service Georgia Clients Only

  • We will be returning to our original focus of servicing singles in the state of Georgia with a future goal of covering the Southeastern United States.

A Letter to SWIRL Matchmaking members…

Its been a  year since I started Swirl Matchmaking and with any business you need to stop and take stock of what works and what does not.  Its been a rewarding journey however there have been obstacles along the way.

The biggest obstacle is that I feel that the business has expanded too quickly and as a result, myself and my matchmakers can’t concentrate on providing the quality matches that we promised.

As a direct result, we will only be servicing members living in the state of Georgia.

What does this mean – If you live outside GA…

We will be returning to our original focus which is to only service the Georgia area. As a result, all profiles based outside of Georgia  will be deleted on September 1.  If members choose, they can log in before that time to remove their pictures and profile information.

IMPORTANT

Please note that our privacy policy is still in effect. We do not and we will never sell, share or rent client names, email address, phone numbers or any other personal information, so members can be assured that all details will be safely removed from our service.

An Alternative to SWIRL

As an alternative, we can suggest Afroromance.com which is an online dating service with an interracial flavor.  Or for interesting information on the Black/White dating experience, please visit Christelyn Karazin’s blog: beyondblackwhite.com.

We would like to thank all of our members and apologies for having to end our relationship this way.

Please contact us for your login details if you would like to remove your pictures…if not, all details will be deleted on September 1st.

Feel free to contact us with any questions at info@swirlmatchmaking.com.

Sincerely,
Cella Nelson, CEO
SWIRL Matchmaking
www.swirlmatchmaking.com
www.onyxatlanta.com

About SWIRL Matchmaking

SWIRL Matchmaking is an online introduction agency that utilizes matchmakers to assist Georgia based Black Women and White Men singles with finding loving relationships.

Professional matchmakers carefully review member profiles taking into consideration their stats, requirements for a mate and relationship deal breakers and selects and forwards quality matches to them. Members can then accept or decline the introduction.

Our service gives members a unique dating edge so they can spend valuable time going on dates rather than browsing through pages and pages of online profiles. You can visit the site at: http://www.swirlmatchmaking.com.

 


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Become an Olympian of Love

  • Attract the lid to your pot!

My grandmother always told me “there’s a lid for every pot.”

She was right!

No matter what your size, shape, interests or personality, there is a perfect match for everyone.

The lid to your pot is out there and here’s a fun way to magnetize them to you.

Begin by filling in these blanks:

When I dream about my future with my soulmate, I always envision us:
Spending our free time on the weekends doing   __________________________
Celebrating my favorite holiday,_______________, doing _________________
Living in a home that is   __________________________________________
On the weekends we will often ______________________________________

Now, using your imagination, spend some time to see and feel you & your soulmate actually living this life together.

With your eyes closed, drop into a sensory space and feel, taste, touch and experience this wonderful life you are now manifesting.

Knowing and trusting that if you can dream it, you can live it.
Take time each day to visit this life.
Have internal conversations with your soulmate.
Write to him or her in your journal.

Does this really work? Absolutely!

Great athletes have been using these techniques for years.
It’s been reported that 99% of athletes who reach the Olympics do this!
Become an Olympian of LOVE!

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

About Arielle
Arielle Ford is the author of Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction. Visit her website.

About SWIRL Matchmaking

SWIRL Matchmaking is an online introduction agency that utilizes matchmakers to assist Black Women and White Men singles with finding loving relationships.

Professional matchmakers carefully review member profiles taking into consideration their stats, requirements for a mate and relationship deal breakers and selects and forwards quality matches to them. Members can then accept or decline the introduction.

Our service gives members a unique dating edge so they can spend valuable time going on dates rather than browsing through pages and pages of online profiles. You can visit the site at: http://www.swirlmatchmaking.com.


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Are you being sabotaged?

  • It’s not unusual that the people that we love feel threatened

Have you ever noticed that when you go on a diet suddenly someone who loves you wants to feed you a cookie or a cupcake?

When we make big changes, it affects the people closest to us.

As you begin to consciously manifest new people and things into your life, you may find that some of the people closest to you become jealous, or even become passive aggressive towards you, or may even try to sabotage your efforts. Chances are they are not purposely trying to be this way they are just reacting to a new and improved you and they are a bit nervous.

If the shoe were on the other foot, and someone close to you had made some changes – for better or worse— you might find yourself a little unsettled until you had the sense that this person still loved you.

There is an adjustment period.

It’s not unusual that the people that we love feel threatened. Your positive changes are threatening to their worldview. It’s part of the price of making change.

For now, keep creating the space for your own personal growth and try not to judge your friends. Now that you’ve found a better way to live have faith that eventually your friends and family will see the merits and benefits and will join you. You are now holding the bar higher so just be patient and understanding with them. And, as they observe how much happier you are, they might decide to make a change as well.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

About Arielle
Arielle Ford is the author of Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction. Visit her website.

About SWIRL Matchmaking

SWIRL Matchmaking is an online introduction agency that utilizes matchmakers to assist Black Women and White Men singles with finding loving relationships.

Professional matchmakers carefully review member profiles taking into consideration their stats, requirements for a mate and relationship deal breakers and selects and forwards quality matches to them. Members can then accept or decline the introduction.

Our service gives members a unique dating edge so they can spend valuable time going on dates rather than browsing through pages and pages of online profiles. You can visit the site at: http://www.swirlmatchmaking.com.


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This is the way to overcome doubt

  • Our beliefs change our lives and become self-fulfilling prophecies.

Interracial coupleLately, the question I am hearing most often is:

“How do I overcome my doubt that I will ever find my soulmate?”

First I would ask you to determine: is this a random thought, a random doubt or do you have a serious “belief” that you will never find your soulmate?

It’s important to make this distinction

As human beings, it’s normal to have occasional doubts but, if your core belief is you won’t find your soulmate, this is something that you need to overcome.

When I have a doubt about something, I choose not to buy into. I say to myself “cancel-cancel” and then select a more empowering thought.

For instance, you have the doubt, “I’ll never find my soulmate.”

Change that to “My soulmate is not only out there but he/she is actively seeking me as well and soon we will be together.”

When I have a “belief” about something, I look to see what feeling is attached…is it Fear? Anxiety? It is possibly an intuitive warning to look more closely at something?

Then I will imagine a “worst case scenario” which usually helps me see the issue with perspective, immediately reducing any fear or self-doubt.

Next I begin to investigate the belief. Is it true? Where did it come from? Am I willing to change my belief? If not, what is my payoff for holding onto this belief?

Our beliefs shape our lives and become self-fulfilling prophecies. If we believe we “can’t,” then we get to be right – we can’t.

This can send you in a repeating mental trap if you are not careful.

Catching yourself when you are mumbling self defeating doubtful thoughts is the goal. The “Cancel Cancel” mantra seems simplistic but it does work. Interrupt your habitual thought pattern and your life will surely change.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

About Arielle
Arielle Ford is the author of Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction. Visit her website.

About SWIRL Matchmaking

SWIRL Matchmaking is an online introduction agency that utilizes matchmakers to assist Black Women and White Men singles with finding loving relationships.

Professional matchmakers carefully review member profiles taking into consideration their stats, requirements for a mate and relationship deal breakers and selects and forwards quality matches to them. Members can then accept or decline the introduction.

Our service gives members a unique dating edge so they can spend valuable time going on dates rather than browsing through pages and pages of online profiles. You can visit the site at: http://www.swirlmatchmaking.com.


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Don’t be shy, flirt!

For those of you who don’t feel you are organically meeting potential dates, I want to suggest that maybe it’s time for you to try something new ( and fun)!

Make the first move

Why?

An important part of practicing the Law of Attraction comes from the word attraction….can you see the word “action” in there? One of the fastest and easiest ways to be in “action” is to consciously practice flirting every day. Flirting is a playful way to engage someone in conversation and it can be done in a friendly, not necessarily sexual manner.

If you are having an adverse reaction to the idea of flirting, think of it this way – it’s networking for your romantic life!  Before you try this out on someone you are super attracted to, I suggest spending a week “practicing.”

Pratice makes perfect

Make a commitment to compliment 3 strangers a day. These strangers should be of the approximate age and gender that you are seeking. Whether you find them at work, on the bus or subway, in line at the bank or Starbucks, the elevator or the grocery store, strike up a little communication. Here’s how:

  • Make eye contact
  •  Smile
  • Try a simple compliment such as:

” I love the color of your shirt, it really makes your eyes pop.”
“Wow, great watch, I really like the style.”
“Great shoes!”

  • Be friendly, open, and don’t have any expectations.

Try it, lets see what happens

The point is just to open a door and see what happens. They may simply say thank you and ignore you or they may return the compliment or perhaps start a conversation with you.

Does this really work?  I have a friend who was shopping for melons at Whole Foods and asked a guy if he knew the secret to selecting a ripe one.  They’ve been married for years now.

Give a try and let me know what happens!

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

About Arielle
Arielle Ford is the author of Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction. Visit her website.

About SWIRL Matchmaking

SWIRL Matchmaking is an online introduction agency that utilizes matchmakers to assist Black Women and White Men singles with finding loving relationships.

Professional matchmakers carefully review member profiles taking into consideration their stats, requirements for a mate and relationship deal breakers and selects and forwards quality matches to them. Members can then accept or decline the introduction.

Our service gives members a unique dating edge so they can spend valuable time going on dates rather than browsing through pages and pages of online profiles. You can visit the site at: http://www.swirlmatchmaking.com.


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A word cloud is a graphical representation of word frequency.  Words are arrayed such that the most important (more frequently used) words are bigger than the others. Below  is a picture of all of the words in this article.


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How do you approach love?

  • How does one be both intentional and surrendered?

There are many ways we approach love…

Some of us take the “if it’s meant to be it will just happen” approach. Others take charge and go into “make it happen” mode. I believe that it’s a combination of the two that is the winning ticket.

I believe that meeting your soulmate has a certain amount of ” meant-to-be-ness to it… AND it requires a big dose of “make-it-happen-ness.”

Practice Intention!

Practicing intention, surrender, focus, and detachment coupled with trust, belief, knowingness, and patience is the recipe for success. And I realize that this is a paradox…. How does one be both intentional and surrendered? 

When I am being intentional, I have a clear feeling and picture of what my desire is AND I also am detached from the outcome. I remind myself of these personal truths:

Personal Truths

  • I know and trust that life will continue to be great whether or not my desire is fulfilled.
  • I surrender to divine timing and to destiny (knowing this or something better is on the way) and my happiness and wellbeing isn’t dependent on having my wishes granted.

The daily “conscious” practice of these truths require emotional maturity and awareness.

It’s worth the effort to master this practice as it will give you freedom to be “with what is” while manifesting your deepest desires!

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

About Arielle
Arielle Ford is the author of Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction. Visit her website.

About SWIRL Matchmaking

SWIRL Matchmaking is an online introduction agency that utilizes matchmakers to assist Black Women and White Men singles with finding loving relationships.

Professional matchmakers carefully review member profiles taking into consideration their stats, requirements for a mate and relationship deal breakers and selects and forwards quality matches to them. Members can then accept or decline the introduction.

Our service gives members a unique dating edge so they can spend valuable time going on dates rather than browsing through pages and pages of online profiles. You can visit the site at: http://www.swirlmatchmaking.com.


Word Cloud

A word cloud is a graphical representation of word frequency.  Words are arrayed such that the most important (more frequently used) words are bigger than the others. Below  is a picture of all of the words in this article.


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What if it was easy?

  • True love is hard to find.
  •  Relationships take hard work.
  •  Love hurts.

Easy ButtonIf you are nodding your head “yes” to those statements, chances are you are giving the Universe mixed messages.

Your conscious mind is saying “Yes I totally desire a relationship with my soulmate” and your subconscious mind is believing and vibrating with “Love hurts and is hard.

Which is going to win?

Have you seen the TV commercials from Staples with the big red “easy button?

They actually sell one…when you push it you hear “that was easy!

Today I am giving you an imaginary “love is easy button.

Here’s how to use it

Every time you catch yourself saying or thinking that finding love is “hard” – stop and press your easy button and say to yourself:

I am grateful that my soulmate and I meet easily and effortlessly.” (or write something that really inspires you)

Be willing to let it be easy!

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

About Arielle
Arielle Ford is the author of Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction. Visit her website.

About SWIRL Matchmaking

SWIRL Matchmaking is an online introduction agency that utilizes matchmakers to assist Black Women and White Men singles with finding loving relationships.

Professional matchmakers carefully review member profiles taking into consideration their stats, requirements for a mate and relationship deal breakers and selects and forwards quality matches to them. Members can then accept or decline the introduction.

Our service gives members a unique dating edge so they can spend valuable time going on dates rather than browsing through pages and pages of online profiles. You can visit the site at: http://www.swirlmatchmaking.com.


Word Cloud

A word cloud is a graphical representation of word frequency.  Words are arrayed such that the most important (more frequently used) words are bigger than the others. Below  is a picture of all of the words in this article.

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